“It’s ok to be suspicious and doubt what you are hearing. Not to mention there are several “fakes”. But remember our paths change yearly, weekly, daily, even hourly based on what we do and how we do it.
You may have missed opportunities because something was not completed prior to you receiving insights. Take in the information as it arrives. The spirit world speaks so fast that trying to figure out how to relay everything can be tongue tying. Don't worry about the "how".
Before going to a reader, please understand that time and energy are fluid. Authentic readers should always explain that the reading is based upon current energy and that 'free will" can alter the "future and predictions" for example if you are driving and decide to make a left turn instead of going straight ...that is "free will" and would change your direction hence insights.